My New York Diary
I have put off writing about this
comic, because in all honesty, it’s not the best comic I’ve read for the class.
It wasn’t my cup of tea, though I do see the appeal, with its stylistic roots
lying in underground comics, it discusses topics that are both personal and
difficult in other mediums. As a platform for encountering the topics, I found
the style fitting; gritty, filthy, and awkward, perfectly describing her
experiences like her ‘first time’.
I thought that as an artist myself,
I could relate to her story, but I somehow couldn’t. It felt very personal, but
crossed no paths with mine. Perhaps this is due to our polar opposite
lifestyles; if anything, it made me afraid of New York. Grasping deeper into
the stories, I found that a female’s perspective on what life is like
entertaining, and it was that aspect that kept me going throughout the graphic
narrative.
Her first time started with a
borderline homeless man, where here attitude towards the situation was ‘oh
well’, just letting the activity happen. Beyond that, this line has popped up
time after time again. This brings up the concept that some females may feel
pressured into doing things they don’t want to, highlighting an inferiority
complex that could have been instated by modern media. For example, the clear
objectification of females is prevalent in almost everything, from the
ridiculous line of “Bic for Her” Pens,
to Star Trek: Into Darkness’s now
infamous and completely redundant underwear scene. This promotes a form of insecurity
and an idea that they are powerless in situations regarding men. Of course,
this isn’t legally true in most cases, as females have the right to do just as
much as a male could today; however, the social gap is still there.
And so, when she says ‘oh well’, those two
words meant a lot more than it does on the surface. I believe that those words
allude to a much bigger issue, that women feel pressured by men in certain
circumstances, and as much as most men would like to deny it, it is the truth
of today.
For this idea, I commend the book;
it has pushed me as a reader to see it from the main character’s perspective,
even though I did not enjoy the claustrophobic panel design of the book. I
guess one can appreciate it if it’s their cup of tea, but I’ll stick with earl
grey for today.